Thursday, May 26, 2011

"As You Wish"...

I remember growing up I used to watch movies like this and think that is love? Nahh.... I think I was right. Often time in my marriage I joke we are more like Lady Gaga's song "Bad Romance". Chris and I have our differences. We are two really stubborn people with completely different world viewpoints and upbringings. Just b/c we see things differently and don't always jive doesn't mean we don't truly love each other.

We drive each other crazy over the little things. Tonight Chris insisted on forward facing the twins (one of our many ongoing debates) since he had to switch the seats into his car while mine gets body work done. When I go back to my car I will be switching them back until the twins turn two (which drives him crazy). I could get frustrated but than I see the small things he does like get me a silly gossip magazine to help me relax like he had waiting for me tonight.

Marriage is not easy but as I've been dealing with some tough news this week it has been Chris who has held my hand. He is pretty far from perfect on some things; but I truly see his desire to be better which makes me want to be better. My marriage might not be a fairytale (it is more like a comedy mixed in with action/adventure) but I think would be pretty dull so I will take what I have and try to make it better.

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Thursday, May 26, 2011

"As You Wish"...

I remember growing up I used to watch movies like this and think that is love? Nahh.... I think I was right. Often time in my marriage I joke we are more like Lady Gaga's song "Bad Romance". Chris and I have our differences. We are two really stubborn people with completely different world viewpoints and upbringings. Just b/c we see things differently and don't always jive doesn't mean we don't truly love each other.

We drive each other crazy over the little things. Tonight Chris insisted on forward facing the twins (one of our many ongoing debates) since he had to switch the seats into his car while mine gets body work done. When I go back to my car I will be switching them back until the twins turn two (which drives him crazy). I could get frustrated but than I see the small things he does like get me a silly gossip magazine to help me relax like he had waiting for me tonight.

Marriage is not easy but as I've been dealing with some tough news this week it has been Chris who has held my hand. He is pretty far from perfect on some things; but I truly see his desire to be better which makes me want to be better. My marriage might not be a fairytale (it is more like a comedy mixed in with action/adventure) but I think would be pretty dull so I will take what I have and try to make it better.

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