For me being the mom of a little girl is a lot harder than being a mom of boys. I dunno, it is easier to be rough and tumble with a little boy. I don't worry about dressing them up or worry about them being considered beautiful. The other day one of my brother in laws said Rachel was Callum and others have noted how they only wear sleepers (and she isn't all fancy).
So I am trying to be better about that. Trying to remember to put bows on her and the pretty outfits. I don't want her being lost in a sea of brothers. I want her to feel beautiful. I remember growing up I didn't feel very pretty and so I don't want Rachel doubting that ever.